Lets see, my daughters car was broken into and ripped apart. The police said they nearly got it and that they were definitely trying to steal it. They did take the radio and they tore up the steering column trying to hot wire it. It took forever just to get the key out once it had been put in. Then I spent last night listening to my grandson trying to breath. He doesnt mouth breath so he snorts and gasps and wheezes and then completely stops breathing and then he wakes up crying. He has a cold and the ER people said that possibly he has a deviated septum. Which you can basically do nothing about until they mature as they are still growing. All we can do is put him in a steamy bathroom, run the humidifier and squirt saline up his nose. My son had the same problem when he was a kid and had to have his sinuses drained more than once. (Sigh) Afterall this comotion mellows a bit I get online only to find that some of my friends are suicidal or "giving up" or "quitting" etc etc etc. How depressing.